Are you getting divorced? It’s time to follow a 3-step parenting action plan for developing better relationships with your children. Parenting Action Plan Step 1: Build an emotional shield. If you haven’t already, it’s time to build an emotional shield that keeps your anger and resentment from impacting your children. If, as a parent, your emotional shield is already constructed, it’s time to reinforce it.
“Plan” an impromptu moment with your child. Look your son in the eye and smile. Take your daughter into an embrace. When he asks, “What?” don’t shrug it off and say, “Nothing.” When she whines, “Mommmm!” don’t just stroke her hair and walk away. Tell him you’re proud of him and explain why. Point out why her character or her deeds impress you. And then stop.
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